i know of some people who say that looks aren't everything. well, i've just got one thing to say to that:

Bullshit.

oh come on, i'm not being pessimistic or jaded or whatever about it, its just plain simple truth. hey, I am one of those people who say that looks aren't everything... just that i'll think twice before saying it from now.

seriously, tho, we do judge people on how they look if we don't know the person right? we'd say things like "he looks like a nice guy" or "he looks like a player" or whatever. all you who claim not to make these general judgements, well, um, DON'T LIE. haha

Sometimes tho, things go a lil far. somehow, when someone passes a comment bout some shit with neverending legs [ i BET u its just the angle of the photo] the comment just bounces back at you and you think... why don't i look like that?

Worse: how can i ever compare to that?

cut to: meathook travelling at breakneck speed, pierces girl through the tummy, pins her to the wall

I guess what one of my friends said is true: you gotta love yourself before you can love someone else, and before someone else can love you.

But it doesn't really matter, does it? Bottom line is that everyone is insecure, one way or the other, no matter how much they don't show it, its there, just gotta know how what are the right buttons to push.

oh and those of you who say that you are completely secure, well, DON'T LIE.

i guess in the end, as long as you're contented with yourself, and for those who have that special someone, that that person is happy with you, just the way you are.